Here's how it works:
(ETA: Please feel free to add "If you feel like it" to items 1, 3, 4, and 5.)
1. Leave me a comment saying, "Interview me."
2. I will respond by asking you five questions. I get to pick the questions.
3. You will update your journal with the answers to the questions.
4. You will include this explanation and an offer to interview someone else in the same post.
5. When others comment asking to be interviewed, you will ask them five questions.
Thus, my answers to the awesomeness that is [info]steppen_kitty:
1. what is your all-time favorite song, and why?
-I don't think I have an all-time favourite. There are just too many to like. And so many touch the senses. And trying to answer this question, I ran through a whole bunch of songs that I listen to a lot. Verses running through my head. For the purpose of this question, I'll stick to
Who I Am by Jessica Andrews,
I Run For Life by Melissa Etheridge and
This One's For the Girls by Martina McBride.
Who I Am allows for contradictions. Life is much too complex and feelings to raw for a person - well, me - to be one-dimensional. I mean, spend one day with me and you'll see me go all over the place.
I Run For Life is about cancer, fighting it, finding a cure for it. The Run. It's a pet case and it's an important one.
This One's For the Girls is the importance of remaining true to yourself and your dreams. We live in a world run by magazines, image and conformity. We're NOT the same, we shouldn't BE the same and I feel this song celebrates that. And since I have an independent spirit and take pride in going against the norm, this song fits me.
(Hope this works. Too bad if it doesn't)
2. describe your perfect man, and no, it cannot be jed, or any other celebrity of any sort. i want pure crystal creation here.
-Not making this easy, are you? :-p
Um, perfect man. That would be an imperfect man. I have flaws, I definitely would want him to have some. Someone who would go skating with me. Race and not let me win but that I would win or lose on my own merit. Give and take. Hold the door if he gets there first, but let me hold the door if I get there first. If it's my car, I drive - his car, he drives. (If any alcohol is consumed this is irrelevant) Doesn't say anything about the pants, and is comfortable staying home, having simple meals, but can surprise me every once in a while by taking me out. Being around, but not crowding. Letting me have my space, my time with friends. A simple call every day just to say hi. But not calling to ask where I am every second. TRUST. Someone who can show me that a commitment doesn't have to be a negative thing. Someone who can hug without his arms being a noose or manacle, but that it sends messages of comfort and safety. Someone who isn't intimidated by my love of hockey and football, but rather encourages it and is in the thick of the action with me, yelling just as much, just as loud, and just as passionately. Someone I can have debates with and won't ignore my opinion. And while we're on this, someone I can talk to about fears, personal insecurities and whatever nonsense is in my head and they won't laugh, but they'll talk about all of it with me and help me come to peace with it or help me overcome the obstacle. And they would be open to me, as well, so I could equally help them. Someone who isn't completely macho and enjoys reading. Doesn't have to admit it in front of his friends if he doesn't want, but will remember not to be hypocritical and make fun of someone else for the enjoyment. A person who is NOT hypocritical.
Ok, that's all I can think of at this moment. But I'm sure there's more. :-p
3. how many kilometers did you put on the baby boat last year?
-From Jan 05 to Dec 05 .... oh, geez ... probably just under 100 thousand. Now if you'd asked for the past year, I could have said over. That Omaha trip stuck in a lot *giggles*
4. how many of those kilometers were put there because of road trips?
-I'd say 95%. I mean, even Windsor to Hamilton is a road trip. Although I guess it's not a long road trip. But it's still there.
5. i miss you. if we could do anything (without money/time/travelling being an issue) together next time we see each other, what would it be and why?
-ROAD TRIP!!!! Anywhere. Because we just like to go. Anywhere. Let's see. New York. We have to see the Met. And go skating in Central Park. Strawberry Garden? We were talking about that cabin thing in Florida. We'd probably do that. Just because. The Midwest. Because I mentioned stealing you out there. We'd out-Jack Kerouac Jack Kerouac. :D